Sunday, July 26, 2015

Week 77: "No Elders, you two are the real life savers, keep preaching the gospel."


So it was a great week! 

AWESOME, in fact. here is why

1. After several weeks of teaching, We were able to see the baptism of Pitbull´s wife and daughter!!! (see the photo....try and tell me he doesn't look like pitbull...) Berenice and her daughter are two people that we have been teaching and they are so awesome. They made lots of sacrifices to be able to make these decision and we are so happy for them... and for Pitbull....

2. We found the COOLEST COUPLE IN THE WORLD!!!! Luis and Lupita (see foto....) Luis is a member of the church, and he is a marine, and his wife Lupita, who is not a member, works in the armed forces of Mexico. They are so legit their story of why they wanted to become involved with the military services are incredible. I gained so much more respect for all those who are serving their country in the armed forces. Luis was telling us all about what he does as a marine. Here in Peñasco, he is basically a coast guard and he has to go out and save peoples lives when their boat catches on fire or when some disaster goes wrong. He literally risks his life every single day to save the lives of others. When I asked him how he can have that kind of bravery every single day, he responded, "Look Elder, I believe that we are here in this life to serve. If you come to this world and you do not live your life for the benefit of others, you will live it in vain." Goosebumps rushed through my body as I looked into his eyes as he said these words. What a powerful teaching, and a living example before my eyes. This man is truly incredible. A few days later, they called him to spend some time in Mexico City, so we had to say goodbye for a time. As we did, I said to him, "You are literally my hero Luis, Keep saving lives!", to which he responded, "No Elder, you two are the real life savers. Keep preaching the Gospel!" 

3. In one of our meetings we had this week, one of the missionaries told a story that represents why we should always obey the Lord and be diligent in what he commands. There once lived a man who spoke with God. God told him that he was to go to a giant boulder that was stuck in the ground and begin to push. He would push all day until the evening, with all his might. That was to be his task. So the man did as he was told, and everyday woke up, went the rock, and began to push. Night would come, and the man would retire to his home, exhausted from a long day of pushing a motionless rock. Days, months, years passed. The man had been pushing for 20 years, and he never saw the boulder move a bit. So the devil come along, and began to tempt the man, saying, "why do you even bother pushing that rock? Do you not see that you have been here 20 years, and you haven't achieved anything? Why not give up? You are wasting your time." The man thought to himself,  "He´s right. All this time, and the rock has not budged. Why would you do this God? Why would you ask me to push this rock all this time, if I was never going to be able to move it!?" In his anger and frustration, The Lord spoke peace to him, saying "My dear son. I asked you to push the boulder, but I never told you that it would move. You think you have failed because you did not see your success, but your sight was wrong from the start. Look again, and you will see." The man looked at himself and realized, that because of his pushing for countless years, his legs and arms had transformed completely into rock solid muscle, allowing him to face many other challenges that faced him in his life. He only thought he was unsuccessful because he could not comprehend the will of God.

I don't know why but when I heard that story I loved it. The moral is that we may not understand why God wants us to do certain things, and we may even question why God´s Will is what it is, but we must always remember that everything lies in the hands of Him who knows all things. If we do what we are asked and we push with all of our might, we will one day look back and see the fruits of our efforts and thank God for what he has given us, even though often times it is not what we expected. 


I love you all, have a great week! Enjoy the Seattle sun for me!

Elder Bernal



Week 76: Running Into Family Friends

Dear Friends.

Connor was very busy this past week as you can see by his email below. I am glad I waited to fwd his email because yesterday I received a nice "photo surprise" from a member who lives in Arizona but is vacationing in Puerto Peñasco and run into Elder Bernal and his companion. I fwd the photo to you (scroll down).

6 months, 1 day, and he will be back !!!!!! 
Not that I am counting....
I'm just saying if you are wondering...

Love ya, Fernando
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Hello all!

Next week I promise, take me word, I am going to have a longer letter to write..... to make up for this week....

Hope everyone is well! Love you guys!


Elder Bernal


Friday, July 17, 2015

Week 71: New Mission President!

Hi everyone,

Soooo Monday, we had to travel to Hermosillo for a meeting, and since I am in Penasco, that means a 7 hour grey line bus ride... and that means the first actual rest I have taken that is allowed since my days in Nogales, almost a year ago..... and oh my goodness did I enjoy that bus ride........ It was also nice because I had plenty of time to get in some good readings of things that I don't normally have time for. That is the one nice advantage of being far away from Hermosillo....
And for that same trip, I didnt have any time to write on Monday, or even Tuesday, so please accept my apologies....

We got to know our new Mission President, President Robinson and his wife, and they are awesome! They seemed very excited and eager to help the mission advance, and I am really excited to get to work under their leadership. President Robinson was an agriculture teacher at Cornell University before receiving his call, so we´ll see if I can get the hook ups with him to have them accept me after my mission........ heehee

The exciting part of my letter this week will be an exert from a letter that my dearest friend Rachy (Slam) Duncan wrote me a couple of months ago that I loved. Hope you enjoy!


In a mother’s womb were two babies. One asked the other:

“Do you believe in life after delivery?” The other replied, “Why, of course. There has to be something after delivery. Maybe we are here to prepare ourselves for what we will be later.”

“Nonsense” said the first. “There is no life after delivery. What kind of life would that be?”

The second said, “I don’t know, but there will be more light than here. Maybe we will walk with our legs and eat from our mouths. Maybe we will have other senses that we can’t understand now.”

The first replied, “That is absurd. Walking is impossible. And eating with our mouths? Ridiculous! The umbilical cord supplies nutrition and everything we need. But the umbilical cord is so short. Life after delivery is to be logically excluded.”

The second insisted, “Well I think there is something and maybe it’s different than it is here. Maybe we won’t need this physical cord anymore.”

The first replied, “Nonsense. And moreover if there is life, then why has no one has ever come back from there? Delivery is the end of life, and in the after-delivery there is nothing but darkness and silence and oblivion. It takes us nowhere.”

“Well, I don’t know,” said the second, “but certainly we will meet Mother and she will take care of us.”

The first replied “Mother? You actually believe in Mother? That’s laughable. If Mother exists then where is She now?”

The second said, “She is all around us. We are surrounded by her. We are of Her. It is in Her that we live. Without Her this world would not and could not exist.”

Said the first: “Well I don’t see Her, so it is only logical that She doesn’t exist.”

To which the second replied, “Sometimes, when you’re in silence and you focus and you really listen, you can perceive Her presence, and you can hear Her loving voice, calling down from above.”

- Útmutató a Léleknek


Awesome huh? Rachael has got some good perspective ... Take care everyone!

Elder Bernal

Friday, June 26, 2015

Week 68: "OK SO WHAT IS GOING ON BACK THERE"

OK SO WHAT IS GOING ON BACK THERE!!!!

We got people getting married, we got people going to Honduras, we got someone with a narly mexi stash, like GEEZ santa vaca, what is happening without me!!!!!

I AM SO HAPPY AGAIN!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS TO MY BEST FRIEND IN DA WHOLE WIDE WERLD IZZY FOR HER MISSION CALL TO HONDURAS!!!!! CASI ME VUELVO LOCO. A LA TORRE MI HERMANITA VA A SER MISIONERA!!!!! the only sad part is they sent you a little too far south... I was totally expecting to have a sister in the same mission....

CONGRATULATIONS TO MY BIG SEESTER ADRIANNA FOR GETTING MARRIED!!!!!!!! ITS OFFICIAL!!!!!!!!!

CONGRATULATIONS TO MY BROTHER FOR THE NEW PET FERRET THAT HE HAS ON HIS FACE!!! YOU ROCK THAT LOOK BROTHER!!!!

AND SORRY TO EVERYONE FOR MY DADS POSES IN THE WEDDING PHOTOS!!!

And to finish up, Thank you so so so so so so so so much Shannon Sperry for your package. I now have enough toothbrushes to clean out all cavities and fight off all cockroaches, and enough candy to get more cavities. And yes, I was flooded with compliments for the block socks with the pink spots. They could not have been perfect.

Well to some up this week, Ruben got baptized and it was awesome! Next week I will send some pics!

I don't know if life can get any better. I am so happy I don't know how to put it in to words.

Elder Bernal
"Happiness is only real when shared"

- Chris McCandless

Tuesday, June 23, 2015

Week 69: "With gentle hands, one can shake the world"

BUENO!!!

Soooo it was a rough week because all of a sudden I got a little sick. But all is well now. Don't worry Mom.

Our mission president, Presidente Hernandez and his wife are finishing their three years of service this week, and so last week we had our last reunion and said our goodbyes. It was really sad but they are really special people and I am gonna miss them a ton. See the pic attached!

So this week we received news of the transfers in the mission, and turns out they sent me to PUERTO PEÑASCO!!!! It was pretty sad because I had to say bye to Mi compa Elder Hernandez and some of the best people I have ever met in my mission, but I have lots of time left in my mission so I really hope i get to see them again. After 6 very very fast months, I will be saying goodbye to Villa de Seris, which is actually pretty hard to do because it has been one of if not my favorite area in all of my mission.  I love villa de seris and I am going to miss it a lot. 

And here I am in PUERTO PEÑASCO!!! Even though it is Mexico, they are more signs in English because of all the gringos that come for vacation! I will be here for another 6 weeks at least so I am very excited. The other great news is that for the first time in my mission, I will be cruising down the streets on MY SWEET BIKE!!! Look out Peñasco!!

So Sunday was Fathers day, and I owe a huge happy fathers day to the man I love most on this planet. Happy Fathers day Fernando you big chump!! sigue guapo!! 

Not a whole lot of time this week, so it will be short. But hey, I'm in Peñasco! Super excited to get to work here. From what I have been told, the people are amazing and are willing to listen. Attached are some photos from when I said bye to everyone in my ward here, and also when I got Shannon Sperry's care package - Thank you!!!

That's all for now, until next week!!

Elder Bernal

"With gentle hands, one can shake the world."
     - Ghandi







Thursday, June 4, 2015

Wee 67: "Forgive him seventy times and seven"


HI!!

LET'S GO MERCER ISLAND LACROSSE LET'S GOO STATE CHAMPS THAT'S WHAT I"M TALKING ABOUT!!!!!! I AM SOO HAPPY!!!!! JACK VASSAU YOU MY HERO MAN WAY TO GO OUT SWINGING!!!!!

If any of you have not witnessed the photo of Jack Vassau with his little stud of a brother Max following Mercers state championship victory, give it a look. It is the greatest photo that has ever been captured since the Mona Lisa (see attachment).
So today has been A GREAT DAY. It was full of lots of great great great news. I am so happy write now I cannot even begin to describe. Ok well here are a couple of awesome things that happened this week:

1. There is a member who lives in our area whose name is Adrian Cota. He and his family live in very humble circumstances, and are amazing and incredibly people. Despite a lack of economic necessities in a family of 9, they have always been willing to do anything for the missionaries. This Sunday, they invited us for dinner later that week. When we got there, we found that Adrian was alone with his 4 little boys, and his wife and her daughters had left the city to take care of some errands. We shared a message with them about the Law of Tithing. It was a very powerful lesson not because of what we said, but because of what Adrian told us. This man, living in a house of cardboard that he built with his own hands, and with the dusty earth as their only floor, began to tell us of how incredibly blessed he is by the Lord because of his obedience in paying his tithing. He bore us his testimony of times when he didn't even have enough money to buy dinner for his kids, but chose to pay tithing first. He told us of how grateful he was for this opportunity that God give us so that He can bless us. It was incredible. He closed with a prayer, and for the first time in a while, tears flowed to my eyes in humility for this incredible and faithful man. His humbleness and perspective of life is truly an example for all. He is what the Savior describes as one with "treasures in heaven" because "he who has eternal life is rich."

2. We are teaching a man named Ruben, who is also incredible. One of the greatest parts of the mission is seeing the changes that occur in the lives of these people. Ruben is one of those that had many changes in his life that we never realized until this week. He is going through a rough time since he and his wife are separating, but he has found much peace and happiness in the Restored Gospel of Jesus Christ. He told us that since we started meeting with him, everything in his life has changed. He was able to cope more with the divorce, he was able to overcome health problems that he was having, and he even saw a drastic change in his economic life when he stopped working on Sundays and started to come to church; his income nearly doubled! People like Ruben are why I am so happy to be a missionary.

3. Speaking of why I love being a missionary, teaching people about the Gospel is also one of the greatest things. As missionaries, we are promised that the spirit will guide us in teaching situations to know that to say. Many times when I teach, I wonder where I get some of the stuff that comes out of my mouth. When we were teaching someone named Luz, she was telling us that she wanted to know more about the love of God, because she didn't really feel much love in her life. It was in this moment that I told her something that did not come from me. I told her that If she wanted to understand how much God loves her, then she should let God forgive her. When we go through the process of repentance and we feel forgiven, we begin to understand how great Gods love really is for us. Think about our relations with our friends and family. When we forgive others, and when they forgive us, these are moments when we feel true happiness and gratitude for one another. A favorite poem says the following: 

O man, forgive thy mortal foe, Nor ever strike him blow for blow; For all the souls on earth that live To be forgiven must forgive. Forgive him seventy times and seven: For all the blessed souls in Heaven Are both forgivers and forgiven

I left that appointment learning from what I had just said. I knew that those words were not my own, but rather words that were given to me by the Holy Ghost, as promised to all Missionaries and servants of the Lord. And thanks to that promise, I could come to the important realization; that the beauty of love is epitomized in forgiveness.

Have an EXCELLENT WEEK, and may you all feel as happy as I do today.
Elder Bernal


Inspiration for the Week:

"EM EM EM EE ARE,
SEE SEE SEE EE ARE
EM EE ARE
SEE EE ARE
GO MERCER GO!!"







Week 66: Live A Higher Standard

Hey everyone!!

So, I don't know why, but we have been enjoying some relatively cool weather for the month of May. Normally its like already smoking hot during these days, but it has been pretty low key. I'm pretty happy about that but also dead scared for when the real deal breaks out.... pray for rain....

Normal week, but one of the coolest things was on Sunday. One of our converts whose name is Cynthia gave a talk, and OH MY GOODNESS. She is a convert of only 3 months, and this day she invited a ton of her friends to come to church to hear her talk, and she nailed it! It was SO incredibly awesome. She taught the doctrine, she bore her testimony, (she even got a little choked up when talking about Joseph Smiths First Vision) and then she invited everyone to live to a higher standard. OMG I was just so happy. So SO so incredibly proud of her to see the change that has occurred in her life. It really makes you happy to see someone like her grow so rapidly in the gospel. ah yeah so that was awesome. Go cynthia

SO MY SISTER IS GETTING MARRIED!!! CONGRATS TO MY BIG SEESTER ADRIANNA on her engagement!!!!!! I dont really know the guy but I heard he had some wonderful long locks a while back and is a athletic trainer so I could probably play that to my advantage when i get back....... Congratulations to Adrianna and Jaime!! Invitenme a la boda!!

That's all for this week. Have a great one!

Elder Bernal